Lighten up a little bit.  In the grand scheme of things we are invisible, totally transparent and have but a brief second in time to ENJOY our selves, not argue, fight and try to control others.

Earth Close up

Earth from 4 Billion Miles

"Life's but a walking shadow , a poor player
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing"

Macbeth  Act V Scene V